We are home now from our very long and very fun visit with Joey. I
thought I would let you know what we did and how it went. Overall I give
the visit a 9 out of 10. We got in at noon on Saturday. We picked up
Joey and went to lunch and did some shopping. We went to lunch and came
to our amazing hotel room. Joey and I went swimming. We have a
waterproof video camera so we had some fun playing with that in the
pool. When I get the videos uploaded online I will send you the links.
They are pretty entertaining. Phil and Joey spent the rest of the first
night building a cool model car. You should all ask him to see it since
he was super excited with it. We were pretty worn out the first night
from the long drive so we all crashed out early.
On Sunday we got
up early and ate a yummy breakfast at the hotel! Thanks to Miss Lisa we
were given tickets to the Denver zoo. HOLY FUN!!! We spent around 5
hours there and just enjoyed spending time together for the first time
as a family. After seeing all the animals we could possibly see, we went
to the Cherry Creek Mall. Joey wanted to go to build a bear. We decided
to have lunch first. This is where I saw Joey in ALL his glory. He
mentioned he wants an earring at our house. I told him in our home boys
do not wear earrings only girls. Joey shut down and was very
inappropriate. He wanted to go to the FCC but we stayed firm with him
and would not move until he acted properly. That took about an hour.
Once he "came back around" we took him to build a bear. He LOVED it. He
chose a blear bear with white stars on it. He picked out a Denver
Broncos outfit and cleats for the bear which he named after his brother
Carlos. He did not put the bear down. He even changed into PJ's and
seat belted it in the car.
By Sunday night we were pretty wiped
out. We went swimming again and played with the underwater video camera
again. We finished then had a serious talk with Joey. We let him know
that when he comes to our house we will have rules. Rules that he will
most likely not care for but the bottom line is that this will be how we
run our house and we are in charge. We then asked him How he felt about
it and if he thought he would be able to handle that. He took some
space than came back and said Yes he wants to come live with us rules
and all. HE and Phil stayed up pretty late that night building a model
airplane. We slept than had breakfast and returned him to the FCC.
I
am really glad we got to go and spend this valuable time getting to
know Joey! Thanks to everyone who helped make this trip possible. I feel
like it was a good experience and I am glad we did it.
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Derin that sounds wonderful! I'm sure it will be a crazy transition for all of you, but what a wonderful family you are starting with Joey! Good luck :D :D
ReplyDeleteI'm super proud of you and Phil for standing your ground and making it known that there are going to be rules and that you two are the authority!
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